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Amor Y Respeto - Cuaderno De Trabajo
Videoconferencia (Descargar PDF)
LIBRO DE EJERCICIOS PARA EL DVD EN ESPAÑOL
Este es un libro de ejercicios que viene adjunto con el set de “Amor y Respeto” donde se presentan todas las Escrituras que el Dr. Eggerichs utiliza, así como actividades interactivas para los participantes. Por favor ordene uno por persona.
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SPANISH DVD WORKBOOK
This is the companion workbook to the Spanish Love and Respect DVDs, providing all the Scriptures Dr. Eggerichs uses, as well as fill-in-the-blanks for interactive participation. Please order one per person.
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Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of pastoring, counseling and study of biblical and scientific research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.
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If we subscribe to the belief that because we are equal we are the same, then we’re going to expect our spouse to respond the way we do.
Your spouse deserves the truth from you. Do your best to tell it with love and respect.
Holding back your love or respect will just keep the Crazy Cycle spinning away, but being mature and making the first move could slow it down.
Wives, to energize your husband do an activity with him, shoulder-to-shoulder, without talking.
You speak lovingly or respectfully no matter how your spouse may speak to you in return. Your spouse is not the reason--good or bad--why you speak unconditional words of love or respect. God is the reason, and as you depend on Him, you will become increasingly able to speak lovingly and respectfully to your spouse.
Recognize your different gifts--how each of you (Pink and Blue) functions according to God’s perfect design.
Your spouse can have a need that you don’t have and that’s okay.
To build a lasting legacy, use proven wisdom that you glean from the Lord.
A wife has one driving need--to feel loved. When that need is met she is happy. A husband has one driving need--to feel respected. When that need is met he is happy. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy. Love and Respect reveals why spouses react negatively to each other, and how they can deal with such conflict quickly, easily and biblically.
Both Judas and Peter denied Jesus Christ, but there is a huge difference between a Judas and a Peter.
Don’t label each other as bad because you differ on how you solve your troubles.
God’s commands are there to help us, not to hinder us or hold us back as male and female.
As a wife, if you can start to understand how important your husband’s work is to him, you will take a giant step toward communicating respect and honor, two things that he values even more than your love.
A major step toward a happy marriage is accepting differences and working them out with love and respect.
Just because you’re offended doesn’t mean the other person is offensive.
Words of wisdom for all husbands and wives are these: We easily see what is done to us before we see what we are doing to our mate.
It is crucial for a husband and wife to see that neither one is wrong, but both of them are very different--in body function, outlook and perspective.
God designed the woman to love. He’s not going to command her to agape her husband when He created her to do that in the first place. God is not into redundancy.
Before hitting send, ask yourself, "Have I listened carefully and understand the exact issue on the table?"
Always see your mate as an ally. Feedback is of little use if you see your spouse as an enemy. Giving and receiving constructive feedback is based on feelings of goodwill in both partners. Both of you need to remember that, even if you don’t always agree and even if you become irritated or angry, you are friends, and neither of you means to hurt the other.
Money squabbles don’t undermine love and respect; they simply reveal unloving and disrespectful attitudes, which are the real reason why a marriage can start to wobble on the Crazy Cycle.
Your spouse has a need that you don’t have. Are you going to say there is something seriously wrong with them or will you say “Viva la Difference”?
Focus on the positive in the midst of the negative, and the Energizing Cycle will keep right on humming.
Optimism or pessimism? It is always a choice, no matter what your natural temperament.
Don’t pressure yourself with perfection. We are going to fail. A righteous man falls 7 times but gets back up.
As mature men, we need to take leadership and put this out on the table. We must acknowledge our feelings- we need to feel respected. However, as we do this we must acknowledge our wife’s feelings- she needs to feel loved!
Unconditional respect is as powerful to him as unconditional love is to her.
We all need to wrestle with the spiritual truth that God is good. If you don’t believe God is good, you won’t trust His word. If you don’t trust His word, you will find excuses to ignore His commands.
Our research shows that couples who pray together are more apt to reap all kinds of benefits, including better and more frequent communication, going on “dates” more frequently and having sex more frequently.
When a wife asks, “Do you love me?” She is not trying to put her husband on the spot. She is simply looking for reassurance.
With a better understanding of God’s promises, you will be on your way to a renewed mind and a changed life.
If you want your husband to express appreciation for your attempts to be respectful, you must speak thankfully when he tries to be loving.
Since it is easy to focus on the negative, focus on your mate’s good qualities and express thanks with positive words of Love or Respect.
I had often asked God to compensate for my mistakes, but in return had I thought He would give me perfect children?
Do you believe that there is a God who really loves you and wants to help you?
Pink and Blue perceptions not only affect seeing, they affect hearing as well. Women hear with pink hearing aids and men hear with blue hearing aids. Even more important to understand as you and your spouse seek to gain better communication, you can hear the very same words, but each of you will hear different messages.
Can you begin to trust that God feels love for you even when you don’t feel that love?
Your position in Christ is what counts, not your less-than-perfect performance.
Being friendly to her man is one of the most effective things a woman can do to strengthen her marriage.
Research and experience prove that men and women see and hear differently. Recognizing these differences and adjusting to them is absolutely necessary for reaching mutual understanding and better communication.
Knowing my spouse will not be able to love or respect me perfectly, I commit to having a forgiving spirit so that I may never speak hatefully or contemptuously.
There is a discrepancy between who we want to be and see ourselves to be and how we actually sound in voice and writing. But with self-reflection and honesty, we can turn the corner and improve our communication. We need only evaluate what we are about to communicate.
When we speak before we think, we widen the chances the other person(s) will be notably hurt, frustrated, confused, angry, fearful, or offended by something we’ve communicated.
The moment we cry to Him for help, He is already pleased. He gives us strength to love our children.
It’s crucial to communicate with the right tone of voice and the right expression on your face.
You’re the only person in the world who can meet your spouse’s deepest need for love and respect. After all, you alone are married to your spouse.
You may believe that the careless, unloving or disrespectful words you speak are because your spouse is causing you to speak this way, but Jesus says that it is coming out of your heart.
You must “ask God from the wealth of his glory to give you power through his Spirit to be strong in your inner selves.”
We might say that every negative action in the family has an equal and opposite negative reaction.
We get on the Crazy Cycle because without love a wife reacts without respect, and without respect a husband reacts without love.
“Respect is a man’s deepest value. I have had numerous men tell me, ‘I would rather live with a wife who respected me but did not love me than live with a wife who loved me but did not respect me.’ These men are not saying that they are indifferent to love. They know they need love, but they need to feel respected even more than they need to feel loved.“
His love blesses regardless of her respect; her respect blesses regardless of his love.
He will feel appreciated when you disagree with him only in private and honor his authority in front of the kids.
We must bring our identity in Christ to our parenting—we must not derive our identity from our children.
When evil comes at you, you’re the one who makes the choice of whether or not it is going to go into you.
Clarifying is what you do before you step on your mate’s air hose and deflate his or her spirit. For example, you are having a typical conversation, but you can tell there is a misunderstanding. One of you isn’t being clear or isn’t hearing correctly. Then and there you clarify the misunderstanding before your spouse’s spirit deflates. You lovingly or respectfully clarify matters so that your spouse will not feel unloved or disrespected. The reason you take pains to clarify a seemingly small matter is to prevent the situation from becoming a love and respect issue that needs decoding. Clarifying is what you do to stay off the Crazy Cycle and keep positive, energetic feelings flowing between the two of you, to keep yourselves on the Energizing Cycle.
The difference between successful couples and unsuccessful couples is that successful ones keep getting up and dealing with the issues.
When one of you makes a mistake, control any anger you may feel and trust God completely, no matter what happens.
We have different vulnerabilities. We can pass judgment on one another all day long or we can say God made us different and that’s ok.
You both forgive for one simple but profound reason: because you know Christ has forgiven you!
Every marriage includes trouble some of the time. Do not let the 20% leaven all the rest.
When you come home after you have been apart, the first few moments of reconnecting will set the tone for the rest of the evening.
No one can really practice Love and Respect unless he or she does it as unto Jesus Christ.
Clearly, in the marriage, in the family and in the household, when you speak words of blessing, you are speaking to the Lord, and for this you will be rewarded.
A wife has one driving need: to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need: to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy with conflict.
The woman absolutely needs love, and the man absolutely needs respect. It’s as simple- and as difficult- as that.
A strong woman of dignity puts on respect out of her love and reverence for Jesus Christ. She trusts that His word not only protects and empowers her, but also rewards her with incomprehensible eternal blessings.
When Jesus said “turn the other cheek,” He wasn’t saying to be passive wimps. He was teaching that physically people can control you but if you turn and give the other cheek, suddenly you’re in control and you’re making the choices.
God is not pink. God is not blue. God is purple. When two become one, they have the potential of displaying God’s attributes and character.
When a wife feels unloved, it can be such a shock to her heart that she is oblivious to her disrespectful reactions toward her husband, though any man watching could see it plainly.
Be quick to listen and understand and you have a much better chance of being understood.
It’s true that women have intuition and that men should listen to them. It’s also true that women have blind spots and need the insight of their husbands.
Just because you may feel unloved or disrespected does not mean your spouse is sending that message.
Share what God is saying to your heart, not what you think He needs to say to your mate.
When you possess a forgiving spirit, words of Love and Respect will flow authentically from your lips- and realize that the Lord Himself is listening to you at moments like these. He knows you are not powerless, but actually full of power that He has granted you.
Do not live by the standards of Hollywood; trust what God says in His Holy Word.
When sorting out how to slow down the Crazy Cycle, it helps to remember that men are commanded to love because they don’t love naturally, and on the other side, women are commanded to respect because they don’t respect naturally.
When you look to God and His Word as your ultimate source of significance and security, you don’t demand that your spouse take that role in your life. And as you draw strength from the Lord individually, He draws you closer together as a couple.
Whether visiting a prison, feeding the hungry, giving the thirsty a drink or speaking a word of love or respect, everything is to be done to and for Christ.
Through Jesus and Peter, God set forth His standard for living in the unconditional dimension: choose to be loving even when the other person is not; do what is right regardless of the treatment you receive. I believe this standard applies directly to marriage. A husband who speaks lovingly to his disrespectful wife will be rewarded; and a wife who speaks respectfully to her unloving, not-worthy-of-respect husband will be rewarded. Whether you are husband or wife, the reward is what can keep you going in the midst of the craziness: knowing that God commends you, knowing that you have found his favor for your words and actions.
Marital researchers agree that a huge percentage of communication problems between husband and wife are due not to what is said but to how it is said – the attitude and tone of voice.
When a wife insists that her husband earn her respect, she puts him in a lose-lose situation.

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