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Love & Respect Conference and 10-Week Study
Before there was a New York Times bestselling book, there was a conference. 6.5 hours to change your marriage! Browse DVD/Workbooks below or consider the online version at the bottom, included with a membership.
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Unlock the secret to a thriving marriage
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Introduction
Welcome to the course. Here you will find overview material such as the course Trailer video and information from the workbook.
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Session 1 - The Crazy Cycle: Part 1
Love and respect are equally needed, but during conflict men and women have different felt needs.
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Session 2 - The Crazy Cycle: Part 2
When a conflict arises and your spouse becomes visibly upset, the root cause of the problem may not be the specific issue at hand. The issue is no longer the issue.
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Session 3 - The Energizing Cycle: Wives Part 1
We have been looking at the Crazy Cycle. Now we wish to consider the Energizing Cycle: His love motivates her respect. Her respect motivates his love.
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Session 4 - The Energizing Cycle: Wives Part 2
Openness, Understanding, Peacemaking, Loyalty and Esteem are all examined to reveal what it can mean to love and energize a wife.
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Session 5 - The Energizing Cycle: Husbands Part 1
A wife can be proactive and meet her husband's need for respect without being fearful that she won't be able to confront unrespectable behavior if it exists.
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Session 6 - The Energizing Cycle: Husbands Part 2
Hierarchy, Authority, Insight, Relationship, and Sexuality are all examined to reveal what it can mean to respect and energize a husband.
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Session 7 - Sarah’s Practical Application: Part 1
The best way to respect a wife is to love her in ways that are meaningful to her. Sarah goes through the practical application of C.O.U.P.L.E. in this session.
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Session 8 - Sarah's Practical Application: Part 2
The best way to love a husband is to respect him in ways that are meaningful to him. Sarah continues the practical application of love and respect with C.H.A.I.R.S.
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Session 9 - The Rewarded Cycle: Part 1
When you love or respect unconditionally regardless of the outcome, you are following God and His will for you. Your real desire is to touch the heart of God.
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Session 10 - The Rewarded Cycle: Part 2
In the end, husbands and wives should be practicing Love and Respect principles out of a desire to obey Christ and His command in Ephesians 5:33.
What you Will Learn
Unlock the secret to a thriving marriage
In Love & Respect, author Dr. Emerson Eggerichs introduces the concept of the Crazy Cycle, a negative communication pattern that can occur in marriages. When one partner responds in a way that feels disrespectful to the other partner, it can trigger a negative reaction, causing the cycle to continue. Learn how to break the cycle and build a stronger relationship.
To break the Crazy Cycle, Dr. Eggerichs suggests that couples need to recognize and address the underlying needs for love and respect in both partners. By showing love and respect to one another, couples can create a positive cycle of interaction and strengthen their relationship. You will learn practical tips and exercises to cultivate this positive cycle.
Through the Crazy Cycle, Love & Respect offers valuable insights into the ways that negative communication patterns can impact a marriage. By understanding and addressing these patterns, couples can build a stronger and more loving relationship.
In Love & Respect, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs presents an alternative to the Crazy Cycle: the Energizing Cycle. This positive communication pattern starts with the wife showing love to her husband, which makes him feel respected. In turn, the husband shows respect to his wife, which makes her feel loved. This creates a positive feedback loop where both partners feel loved and respected.
By consistently showing appreciation, affection, and empathy, couples can cultivate the Energizing Cycle and build a strong and healthy relationship. Love and respect are two essential needs for both partners in a marriage, and meeting these needs can lead to greater intimacy, connection, and satisfaction in the relationship.
The Energizing Cycle offers a practical and effective way for couples to break negative communication patterns and build a more positive and fulfilling relationship. By intentionally showing love and respect to one another, couples can strengthen their bond and experience greater happiness and fulfillment in their marriage.
In Love & Respect, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs introduces the concept of the Rewarded Cycle, where each partner meets the other's needs and is rewarded for their efforts. The wife shows respect to her husband, which motivates him to show love to her. In turn, the husband's love motivates the wife to show respect to him. This creates a positive cycle of interaction where both partners feel appreciated and fulfilled.
By understanding each other's needs and consistently meeting them, couples can cultivate the Rewarded Cycle and build a strong and healthy relationship. The book provides practical advice for couples to understand each other's needs and communicate effectively.
The Rewarded Cycle offers a way for couples to break negative communication patterns and build a more positive and fulfilling relationship. By consistently meeting each other's needs, couples can strengthen their bond and experience greater happiness and fulfillment in their marriage.
In Love & Respect, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs offers practical advice for couples to improve their communication and build a stronger relationship. The book presents the C.O.U.P.L.E. acronym, which stands for Closeness, Openness, Understanding, Peacemaking, Loyalty, and Esteem.
Each element of the C.O.U.P.L.E. acronym represents a key aspect of a healthy and fulfilling relationship. By working to develop these qualities in their marriage, couples can build a stronger and more loving relationship. The book provides practical tips and exercises for couples to develop these qualities.
The C.O.U.P.L.E. acronym provides a roadmap for couples to build a strong and healthy relationship. By cultivating closeness, openness, understanding, peacemaking, loyalty, and esteem, couples can strengthen their bond and experience greater happiness and fulfillment in their marriage.
Are you yearning for a closer, more fulfilling marriage? Look no further than "Love & Respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. The C.H.A.I.R.S. concept presented in the book is a powerful tool that can help you build a healthy, vibrant relationship with your spouse.
Through the book, you will discover practical strategies for improving communication, resolving conflicts, and cultivating a positive feedback loop of love and respect. You'll learn how to communicate effectively, honor one another's needs and feelings, show affection and empathy, deepen intimacy, develop important relationship skills, and experience sexual fulfillment.
The C.H.A.I.R.S. concept is a guide to help you focus on the key areas of your relationship that matter most. By intentionally showing love and respect to one another, you can break negative communication patterns and cultivate a positive cycle of interaction. With the practical advice and biblical principles presented in "Love & Respect," you can create a deeply fulfilling marriage that is characterized by intimacy, connection, and joy. Don't wait any longer – start building the marriage of your dreams today.
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Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of pastoring, counseling and study of biblical and scientific research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.
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