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Our Neighbors Part 2

In part 2 Emerson continues to discuss the intricacies of neighborly relationships. He talks about how to recognize the warning signs that signal an unhealthy dynamic, navigate the process of repairing or preventing a painful rift, and ultimately cultivate a neighborhood environment characterized by cordiality, civility, and mutual appreciation. Even if a neighbor does not respond, we can find comfort in knowing we made the effort God intended, which can take a huge weight off our shoulders.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.

Author, Speaker, Pastor

Questions to Consider

How do my interactions with my neighbors affect my relationships within my own family, especially my marriage?
Do I take the time to understand and validate my neighbor's concerns before reacting to a conflict?
How can I practice small acts of kindness towards my neighbors to build better relationships, even when there is tension?
In what ways can I reflect Christ in my interactions with difficult neighbors, and do I see Jesus in them despite their behavior?

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