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The Angry Christian Husband: Understanding a Hidden Struggle in the Christian Home

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It’s one of the most confusing and painful contradictions faced by many Christian couples.

A husband who loves Christ finds himself reacting in ways he never intended. He worships on Sunday, yet by Monday feels overwhelmed, irritated, or explosive. He knows Scripture well, yet in moments of frustration speaks or withdraws in ways that wound.

Wives are left hurting and confused. Husbands feel ashamed, misunderstood, or unsure why they get so triggered. Both spouses wonder, “How did we get here?”

This free, grace-filled webinar speaks to both husbands and wives. It does not shame men, nor does it minimize the hurt. Instead, it offers compassionate clarity about the spiritual, emotional, and relational dynamics that can lead a Christian husband into patterns of anger, bitterness, or withdrawal—often without understanding the deeper reasons behind it.

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs will guide couples through:

  • Why good-willed men can become harsh or distant at home
  • Why wives often feel confused, hurt, or alone
  • What’s really happening beneath the surface for both spouses
  • How understanding the “why” can open the door to healing and change
  • Practical steps toward restoring connection, trust, and peace

If you are a husband who struggles…

If you are a wife who feels the impact…

Or if you are a couple longing for hope and clarity…

This webinar will help you understand each other with truth, compassion, and a path forward. It’s time for healing conversations in Christian homes—and for couples to discover renewed hope together.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.
Author, Speaker, Pastor

Questions to Consider

  1. When you feel that surge of anger toward your wife, can you pause and honestly ask yourself: “Am I feeling dishonored, unfairly treated, or that she’s against me right now?”
  2. If your anger really has “nothing to do with her” like Dr. Emerson said, what deeper wound or fear in you is her behavior actually revealing?
  3. How important is the spiritual authority and legacy God wants for you—important enough to finally own your anger instead of blaming her for provoking it?
  4. Wives: the next time he gets harsh, will you courageously say, “I’m not trying to dishonor you, treat you unfairly, or be against you—I’m for us,” and then watch what the Holy Spirit does?