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You Say For Us To Uncover Our Spouse's Real Heart Instead Of Assuming Ill Will, But Is That Something Scripture Urges?

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You Say For Us To Uncover Our Spouse's Real Heart Instead Of Assuming Ill Will, But Is That Something Scripture Urges?

Uncover the hidden goodwill in your spouse's heart during marital conflict with biblical insight from Proverbs 20:5—decode defensive reactions and use safe questions to break the Crazy Cycle of unloving and disrespectful responses, transforming fights into deeper connection for couples seeking lasting love and respect.

Questions to Consider

What if assuming the worst in your spouse's reactions is keeping you stuck in endless conflict—how might seeing their goodwill change everything?
When was the last time you used a safe starter question to draw out your spouse's true heart instead of shutting them down?
Could your spouse's unloving or disrespectful words actually be a compliment in disguise, crying out for the one need only you can meet?
In the heat of an argument, who will be the first to affirm, "We both have basic goodwill—we're allies, not enemies"?

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Emerson discusses the reasons why people sometimes share private information that they shouldn't, even with noble intentions. He highlights motives such as wanting to feel significant, socially bond, and create curiosity, but emphasizes the importance of respecting confidentiality and how breaching it can erode trust.

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Aren't Husbands Egotistical And Narcissistic For Focusing on Respect?

In this video, Emerson challenges the notion that men’s desire for respect is rooted in narcissism. Through a personal testimony, he illustrates how a husband’s profound emotional response to his wife's respect highlights the deep-seated need for validation and connection in marriage.

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When Should Couples Pray Together and Why Don't They?

Emerson explores why many Christian couples struggle to pray together, emphasizing the biblical principle of reconciliation before prayer.

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You Have Talked About Rules Of Engagement In Marriage But Do You Have These In Parenting?

In this video, Emerson discusses the importance of having rules of engagement in parenting to maintain a healthy and respectful environment for both parents and children. He highlights key rules like avoiding name-calling, refraining from using the divorce word, not slandering the other parent, and maintaining a loving and respectful tone.

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