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Does "Fulfill Your Duty" In Marriage Mean Sex On Demand?

Tired of "duty" in marriage sounding like sex on demand? Unpack 1 Corinthians 7's seven mutual duties—from pleasing to sanctifying—that transform obligation into joyful, Christ-centered care for spouses craving God's blueprint.

Questions to Consider

  1. If "duty" means giving what is right rather than demanding sex, how might reassuring your spouse of goodwill during conflict fulfill a deeper obligation than bedroom compliance?
  2. When Paul lists seven duties beyond the sexual, why do we reduce marital obligation to the marriage bed instead of embracing care in distress or sanctifying influence?
  3. If equal authority in the bedroom creates God-designed troubles, what if viewing Tuesday night clashes as teamwork opportunities turns resentment into the happiness Paul envisions?
  4. With marriage never eclipsing devotion to Christ, how could reminding each other "this world is passing away" balance earthly duties with eternal loyalty?