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Can You Go Over the Sleep Apnea Story Again?

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Can You Go Over the Sleep Apnea Story Again?

A simple argument over a sleep apnea mask revealed a deeper longing for connection and intimacy. Emerson shares a powerful story from the Win-Win Online course that shows why the real issue is rarely the surface issue—and how couples can finally move from repeated conflict to mutual understanding and satisfaction.

Questions to Consider

What surface-level conflict in your relationship might actually be hiding a deeper need that hasn't been fully expressed?
How often do you and your spouse assume you know what the other person really wants without slowing down to ask and listen?
If you viewed your spouse's resistance not as rejection but as an expression of their own longing, how might that change the way you respond?
What would it look like in your marriage to stop solving the wrong problem and start moving toward each other instead of fighting each other?

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What Do I Do When I Know My Child is Provoking Me to Anger?

There are challenges parents face when their children provoke them to anger but it is critical to respond with wisdom and grace. Emerson explores the concept of not provoking children to anger, draws from biblical references, and highlights the need for emotional control and composed anger in parenting.

Parenting

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What’s the Big Deal About Pre-marital Sex?

Join Emerson as he examines research and biblical insights and learn how premarital sexual choices can sow seeds of distrust, judgment, and disconnection in relationships, and explore a path to healing through confession and forgiveness.

Marriage

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How Do I Deal With Feeling That God Neglects And Abandons Me?

Emerson discusses feeling abandoned by God despite His constant presence within believers, delving into personal and biblical narratives to navigate the impact of past wounds on faith. Learn about a shift that leads from questioning to embracing one's cherished position, where abandonment gives way to acceptance and doubt to hope.

Christian Life

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How Do You Reengage After Separation?

Emerson addresses the recent and common question of how to reengage in marriage after a period of separation. The key point emphasized is the need to identify and eliminate the behaviors or issues that contributed to the separation in the first place.

Marriage

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