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Relationship Advice:
Featured Conversations with Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.
A curated collection of the latest featured guest conversations with trusted thought leaders—highlighting key takeaways and relationship advice on marriage, parenting, communication, and biblical wisdom.
"We want a perfect spouse, but we rarely consider the judgment that would come when that “perfect” person starts living with our very real imperfections."
Featured Conversation with Christian Bevere: Honor, Marriage & Leadership
Key Takeaways
- The power of honor in motivating a man.
- Spiritual leadership in marriage requires strength and humility.
- There is a fine line between motivation and manipulation.
"In a woman’s world, withdrawing is the most unloving thing you could do… it feels like an act of hostility … But in a man's world … you withdraw as an act of honor."
Relationship Advice from Emerson Eggerichs, PhD & Bradley Gray
Key Takeaways
- Through presumption comes nothing but strife.
- "Never demand respect. That’s God’s revelation to give. It’s none of my business. God has told me to love her."
"No matter the past, no matter the situation you grew up in ... we all reach a crossroads where we have to begin to make new choices."
Featured Conversation with Janet Parshall & Emerson Eggerichs, PhD
Key Takeaways
- God-given vs. spouse driven identity.
- If you marry you will have trouble.
- Men want the headlines and women want the details.
"When you're really upset in conflict, if you can be vulnerable and say 'You're hurting me' instead of using accusatory language, it will awaken a husband's protector mode instead of their attack mode."
Relationship Advice from Emerson Eggerichs, PhD & Jenilee Samuel
Key Takeaways
- Just because we don't feel like we are being harsh with our language doesn't mean we ignore the cry of our spouse's heart.
- Believing in a person's good intentions and affirming it with our language can be a powerful motivation to de-escalate conflict.
"You can't be negative on an ongoing basis towards your spouse and expect it to motivate them to be positive."
Featured Conversation with Arlene Pellicane & Emerson Eggerichs, PhD
Key Takeaways
- When we realize that everything we do for our spouse is unto the Lord, we find a great incentive for unconditional love and respect.
- "In marriage, your true audience is Christ."
"Intentional ill-will is rarely the root cause of tension in a relationship ... It is almost always an honest lack of understanding of the other person."
Relationship Advice from Emerson Eggerichs, PhD & Rachael Adams
Key Takeaways
- Why ignorance—not a lack of love—is often what fuels conflict.
- There is a difference between trying harder and understanding better in your relationship.
"Our value before the Lord must be Christ-given and not spouse-driven. He is the one calling us to love and respect our spouse, so we find power when we do it unto Him."
Featured Conversation with Karl Clauson & Crew & Emerson Eggerichs, PhD
Key Takeaways
- "Relational issues aren't just emotional or sexual issues, they are a part of a spiritual battle taking place."
- The Holy Spirit has what we need and we can draw upon Him for strength in our relationships.
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Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of pastoring, counseling and study of biblical and scientific research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.
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