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The Five-Step Word Picture: How Conversations Get Off Track, And How to Get Them Back On Track - Part 1
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Emerson begins the discussion in this two part podcast on the common pitfalls in marital communication, emphasizing how discussions can quickly derail from factual issues to emotional conflicts. He introduces a five-step framework to help couples maintain focus on the issues at hand and avoid emotional escalation. The importance of understanding each partner's emotional needs, represented as 'air hoses' for love and respect, is highlighted as a crucial element in navigating these conversations effectively.
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Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.
Author, Speaker, Pastor
Questions to Consider
- How often do you notice your conversations with your spouse shifting from facts to emotions, and what triggers this change?
- What practical steps can you take to keep the issue the issue when discussing sensitive topics like finances or parenting?
- In what ways might you be unintentionally stepping on your spouse’s emotional air hose during conflicts?
- How can you and your spouse work together to reset the whiteboard and restore a sense of teamwork after a heated discussion?
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