The A.R.T. of Fighting Fair in Marriage
Turn heated marriage fights into fair, faith-filled wins with A-R-T: Awareness of Christ's presence and ally mindset, Restraint through gentle tones and etched rules, Turnaround via apologies and prayer—for couples ready to honor God amid conflict.
Questions to Consider
- If Jesus stands beyond your spouse's shoulder during every argument, how might quenching His presence cost you more than winning the fight?
- When conflict tempts you to see your spouse as the enemy, what happens if you hang the neon sign "we are allies" before reloading your rebuttal?
- If a gentle tone turns away wrath but you escalate to match their volume, are you rejecting Scripture's counterintuitive power for self-righteous venting?
- After the storm clears, why risk assuming peace when a simple "are we good?" could rebuild trust and confirm the turnaround?

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