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Small Conflicts Prepare Us for Big Ones

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Discover how small conflicts in marriage can strengthen your relationship for life's bigger challenges. This engaging video draws from biblical wisdom in Song of Solomon and John Gottman's research to reveal four key practices—turn, repair, appreciate, compromise—that help couples catch the "little foxes" of daily irritations. Perfect for married couples or those preparing for marriage, it shows how mastering small disagreements builds resilience for major crises, offering practical tools to nurture a thriving, lasting partnership.

Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.

Author, Speaker, Pastor

Question to Consider

How can practicing the TRAC principles in small daily conflicts change the way you approach larger challenges in your marriage?
What specific "little foxes" in your relationship might be opportunities to build resilience if addressed with intentionality?
In what ways can expressing gratitude during a disagreement shift the emotional tone and outcome of the conflict?
How might embracing a "yielding to win" mindset in small compromises prepare you and your spouse for navigating major life crises together?

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