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You Talk About Unconditional Positive Regard Toward Our Spouse, But How Do We Do That When Talking About Conflict?

Learn how to handle heated conflicts over money and sex in marriage without attacking your spouse's character. Emerson explains the power of unconditional positive regard—separating the issue from the person's worth—to foster respect, reduce defensiveness, and build connection, even in tough disagreements. Perfect for couples who want healthier, more Christ-honoring conversations that honor both partners' spirits and lead to real solutions.

Questions to Consider

  1. How often do I assume positive intent in my spouse during disagreements, and what happens when I don't?
  2. In what ways have I separated (or failed to separate) the issue from my spouse's worth in recent conflicts?
  3. If my spouse used my exact words and tone toward me, would I feel respected and safe to open up?
  4. Am I approaching tough conversations to win the argument or to truly connect and understand my spouse better?