In this session, Dr. Emerson Eggerichs teaches couples to recognize that many marriage conflicts are not about right versus wrong, but about different “shades of right” in gray areas of preference, personality, and perspective. He also explains the 80/20 principle, encouraging husbands and wives not to let moments of tension, weakness, or frustration define the whole marriage, but to remember each other’s goodwill and the many strengths still present.