Explore Win-Win: Mutual Satisfaction
The Win-Win Marriage: Where He and She Agree, "That Works for Me!"

Session 1 - The Crazy Cycle: Part 1
Love and respect are equally needed, but during conflict men and women have different felt needs.
The Crazy Cycle: Part 1
Decoding the Craziness! Research found that love and respect are the two key ingredients for a successful marriage.Though we all need love and respect equally, the felt need during conflict is as different as female is from male (Matthew 19:4).
About This Course
Some Things to Know!
A Revolutionary Path to a Thriving Marriage
Transform your relationship with The Win-Win Marriage: Mutual Satisfaction—a groundbreaking 6-session video course by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, bestselling author of Love and Respect. This will also come out as a book in 2026 and there are five other courses to come. Rooted in 1 Corinthians 7, the New Testament’s most practical and detailed passage on marriage, this course reveals the power of mutuality—a principle that sparked light-bulb moments for Emerson and will inspire you. Perfect for newlyweds, long-married couples, or engaged partners, this course equips you with biblical tools to navigate daily challenges and build a united, joyful marriage.
Course Overview
Across six 90-minute sessions, you’ll master practical, God-inspired strategies to create a Win-Win Marriage:
- Session 1: A House United Discover why a win-win marriage is God’s design and how to achieve it.
- Session 2: A Tale of Two Marriages Align your relationship with shared goals for mutual success.
- Session 3: Meeting Each Other’s Needs Foster mutual satisfaction through intentional care.
- Session 4: God’s Design for Unity Understand how your unique differences strengthen your bond.
- Session 5: “I Need You” Build trust and vulnerability through humble connection.
- Session 6: Emotional Fulfillment Fill each other’s “emotional oxygen tank” for lasting joy.
This course is ideal for couples with basic goodwill who want to resolve “gray-area” challenges and overcome stalemates. *Note: For marriages facing crises like adultery, abuse, or addiction, meeting with a third party or accessing other resources will be more appropriate and beneficial. With that said, Emerson has plans for future content for those in crisis, while this course focuses on thriving, not just surviving.
Course Details & Requirements
Who is this for? Couples (together or individually) who are newly married, married for decades, or engaged.
Price: This course when offered “live” was $540 per couple, but is now included with your Love and Respect membership.
What’s Required?
- Read significant portions of the book material before the video sessions.
- Reflect on individual questions and questions as a couple
- Complete special assignments in some of the sessions
- Complete brief surveys in some of the sessions
- Actively engage the content during and following the course
Why Begin Now?
Invest in your marriage with confidence to be a couple seeking God’s way to a happier, stronger relationship. A $540 value included with your membership, you’ll gain exclusive access to Emerson’s revolutionary insights, practical tools, and a sneak peek at his upcoming book. Whether you’re looking to reignite your connection or prepare for a lifetime of love, The Win-Win Marriage: Mutual Satisfaction, will empower you to say, “That works for me!”
Start the course today and begin building the marriage God designed for you.
Enjoy!
Emerson and the Love and Respect Team!
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Emerson Eggerichs, Ph.D.
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships and wrote the best-selling book Love & Respect. Based on over three decades of counseling as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference and this online study, dynamic and life-changing material that has resulted in the healing and restoration of countless relationships.
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Who is this class for?
We read in 1 Corinthians 7:26 about “the present distress.” The church at Corinth encountered some type of grave adversity. Are you or is someone about whom you have concern experiencing some kind of hardship? Emerson invites us to do two specific things as a couple or in a small group that prepares us to navigate the trouble in front of us.
How much knowledge and experience do I need to take this class
We read in 1 Corinthians 7:26 about “the present distress.” The church at Corinth encountered some type of grave adversity. Are you or is someone about whom you have concern experiencing some kind of hardship? Emerson invites us to do two specific things as a couple or in a small group that prepares us to navigate the trouble in front of us.
Is this class good for children?
We read in 1 Corinthians 7:26 about “the present distress.” The church at Corinth encountered some type of grave adversity. Are you or is someone about whom you have concern experiencing some kind of hardship? Emerson invites us to do two specific things as a couple or in a small group that prepares us to navigate the trouble in front of us.
How exactly does the month-long class work?
We read in 1 Corinthians 7:26 about “the present distress.” The church at Corinth encountered some type of grave adversity. Are you or is someone about whom you have concern experiencing some kind of hardship? Emerson invites us to do two specific things as a couple or in a small group that prepares us to navigate the trouble in front of us.
What is the time commitment and schedule for the class?
We read in 1 Corinthians 7:26 about “the present distress.” The church at Corinth encountered some type of grave adversity. Are you or is someone about whom you have concern experiencing some kind of hardship? Emerson invites us to do two specific things as a couple or in a small group that prepares us to navigate the trouble in front of us.