Husband & Wife Mug Set and Coaster
The perfect wedding, anniversary or “just because” gift, the coaster and husband and wife coffee mug set will be the perfect addition to anyone's morning routine or small group experience. 6 premium leather coasters with logo (Saddleback Leather Co.).
Love & Respect Coaster and Mug Set
Husband and Wife
Timeless Ceramic Mugs
Experience a hint of nostalgia with our traditional ceramic custom diner mugs, reminiscent of simpler times. These 11 oz. ceramic mugs boast a sturdy build, glossy exterior, slight top and bottom flare, and a thick curved grip for easy handling. They make a perfect addition to your mug collection, adding a touch of charm to your daily coffee or tea enjoyment. Let these timeless mugs transport you to cherished memories as you sip your favorite beverages in comfort and style.
Coasters
Made by Saddleback Leather Co.
Over-Engineering: This leather product is over-engineered with no breakable parts like zippers, snaps, buttons, etc. It's built with the largest pieces of leather possible so there are fewer seams, sewn at only 5 stitches per inch so there's more leather between the needle holes and fewer holes to start a tear.
Materials: The strongest to be found (full-grain boot leather, but thicker), and the pigskin lining is stronger than the cow leather. The thread is unbelievably strong industrial marine grade UV resistant polyester thread.
Dimensions (W x H)
Coasters: 4.75" x 3.75"
Coaster Holder: 4.75 x 4"
Weight: 0.80 lbs
Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of pastoring, counseling and study of biblical and scientific research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.
About Love & RespectProduct Quotes
No matter what your struggle- criticism, constant conflict, sex, money, parenting, harsh words- learning to communicate the Love and Respect way can help you make crucial changes and build the kind of relationship that God blesses.
Parenting is a faith venture. As we parent “unto Christ” we reap God’s reward, “knowing that whatever good anyone does, he will receive the same from the Lord” (Eph. 6:8 NKJV)
I had often asked God to compensate for my mistakes, but in return had I thought He would give me perfect children?
We have discovered that as women motivate their man God’s way, men are energized to love them better. It doesn’t matter if your marriage is good or seems like there is no hope. We have seen God move in powerful ways even when things looked hopeless.
We can communicate the truth in the best of manners, but the person may be so insecure he or she can only react and attack like a wounded bear.
We can all have moments of anger, but this does not mean we have to lose control and sin.
A parent needs to feel respected, especially during conflicts...A child need to feel loved, especially during disputes.
Although the Crazy Cycle is not what God intends for any marriage, all couples get on it at times from one degree to another.
If husbands and wives are to understand the Love and Respect Connection, they must realize that they communicate in code. And the problem is, they don’t know how to decipher the messages they send to one another.
When we feel crippling discouragement by the sinful choices and outcomes of our kids, we must not let this permanently deter us from parenting God’s way.
Your marriage is a tool and a test to deepen and demonstrate your love and reverence for Jesus Christ. God is using your spouse to bring you an eternal reward.
When a wife insists that her husband earn her respect, she puts him in a lose-lose situation.
When you look to God and His Word as your ultimate source of significance and security, you don’t demand that your spouse take that role in your life. And as you draw strength from the Lord individually, He draws you closer together as a couple.
Accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative with lots of love and respect in between.
Most marriages will succeed when obeying the command to Love and Respect.
A major step toward a happy marriage is accepting differences and working them out with love and respect.
God is not trying to trick you or mess with you. Trust that He wants to reveal Himself to you just as much as He wants to reveal Himself to the world.
God’s commands are there to help us, not to hinder us or hold us back as male and female.
Whether visiting a prison, feeding the hungry, giving the thirsty a drink or speaking a word of love or respect, everything is to be done to and for Christ.
When a wife asks, “Do you love me?” She is not trying to put her husband on the spot. She is simply looking for reassurance.
Getting married reveals, usually sooner than later, an incontestable fact: your spouse cannot possibly meet all your needs and desires
Thank God for joining you together and for allowing you to trust Him to help you, whatever the issue. God is there for you and expects you to look to Him to keep you together as a team, so ask Him for His help in the smallest of concerns. “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” (Matthew 19:6)
Husbands, even Jesus Himself was asked by a woman, “Do you not care?” (Luke 10:40) When your wife accuses you of not caring, decode her deeper meaning.
Both Judas and Peter denied Jesus Christ, but there is a huge difference between a Judas and a Peter.
Just because you’re offended doesn’t mean the other person is offensive.
In the ultimate sense you marriage has nothing to do with your spouse. It has everything to do with your relationship with Jesus Christ.
So I encourage every husband and wife to commit to the Jesus Way of Talking. Instead of allowing the stress of the situation to control you, you can say to yourself, “Because I love the Lord and I know that He rewards every good word, I am going to be truthful even if my spouse is not. I will also be uplifting, forgiving, thankful and scriptural in my speech because my ultimate goal is to please the Lord. Whatever my spouse’s weaknesses or bad habits might be, I will not let them cause me to sin with my lips.”
Research and experience prove that men and women see and hear differently. Recognizing these differences and adjusting to them is absolutely necessary for reaching mutual understanding and better communication.
Do not live by the standards of Hollywood; trust what God says in His Holy Word.
Marriage is a test of how you unconditionally love and respect your spouse as you obey, honor, and please the Lord.
Just because you may feel unloved or disrespected does not mean your spouse is sending that message.
You both forgive for one simple but profound reason: because you know Christ has forgiven you!
The moment we cry to Him for help, He is already pleased. He gives us strength to love our children.
Your spouse can have a need that you don’t have and that’s okay.
We get on the Crazy Cycle because without love a wife reacts without respect, and without respect a husband reacts without love.
When Jesus said “turn the other cheek,” He wasn’t saying to be passive wimps. He was teaching that physically people can control you but if you turn and give the other cheek, suddenly you’re in control and you’re making the choices.
[Husbands] as the church places her burdens on Christ, so a woman needs to place her burdens on her husband. When she shares with you, don’t assume she is asking you to solve the problem. Ask your wife, “Do you want a solution or a listening ear?”
When you’re truly Christ-centered, instead of child-centered, you will be a more effective parent in the long run.
Optimism or pessimism? It is always a choice, no matter what your natural temperament.
There is power and freedom that comes in understanding that no one can cause you to react in a certain way. It is your choice.
Your husband knows you value his friendship when you tell him you like him and you show it (he knows you love him, but he often wonders if you really like him).
Knowing my spouse will not be able to love or respect me perfectly, I commit to having a forgiving spirit so that I may never speak hatefully or contemptuously.
Do you understand that God feels compassion for you, no matter what you have done or what your circumstances may be?
When a husband feels disrespected, it is especially hard to love his wife. When a wife feels unloved, it is especially hard to respect her husband.
Women give a report to build rapport. Men bond through shoulder-to-shoulder activities without talking.
We have different vulnerabilities. We can pass judgment on one another all day long or we can say God made us different and that’s ok.
Above all trust God when the “whys” of life threaten to overwhelm you.
Words of love from a husband are like good medicine that brings life to the marriage.
Being a person who communicates what is true frequently demands tact, and at times it can feel like sidestepping land mines. It takes work to be both truthful and tactful.
We blame people for the bad things we do, but take credit for the good things we do.
If a husband chooses to be a peacemaker--taking the needs and concerns of his wife totally into account during any kind of argument or conflict--his wife will be motivated in turn to respond to his authority during stalemates.
To not forgive is to shoot yourself in the foot and put extra gas in the Crazy Cycle.
Self-interest should never come ahead of your spouse’s interests.
[Women], your self-love cannot be derived from your husband’s love. It can affect it, but it does not determine it.
[Husbands] the most powerful weapons you have are your ears. Just listen to your wife, and she is much more likely to feel understood.
Share what God is saying to your heart, not what you think He needs to say to your mate.
Your husband knows you appreciate his desire to protect and provide when you praise his commitment to provide for you. You empathize when he reveals his male mindset about position, status, or rank at work.
Be quick to listen and understand and you have a much better chance of being understood.
It is so easy to draw wrong conclusions about a spouse’s character and motives due to an occasional flare-up or silly comment.
God is not pink. God is not blue. God is purple. When two become one, they have the potential of displaying God’s attributes and character.
Holding back your love or respect will just keep the Crazy Cycle spinning away, but being mature and making the first move could slow it down.
Being friendly to her man is one of the most effective things a woman can do to strengthen her marriage.
Thank God for His forgiveness of your mistakes. In trying to be a loving man or a respectful woman, we blow it. Owning up to mistakes is never easy, but it is always the way to move forward. Take good care not to accuse your spouse of mistakes as you pray. Also, pray about any forgiving to be done in the family, any forgiveness that needs to be asked. Children may need forgiveness (and what about Mom and Dad?). “There is no one on earth who does what is right all the time and never makes a mistake.” (Ecclesiastes 7:20)
Marriage is a tool and a test to deepen and demonstrate your love and your reverence for Jesus Christ.
The woman absolutely needs love, and the man absolutely needs respect. It’s as simple- and as difficult- as that.
When you possess a forgiving spirit, words of Love and Respect will flow authentically from your lips- and realize that the Lord Himself is listening to you at moments like these. He knows you are not powerless, but actually full of power that He has granted you.
The difference between successful couples and unsuccessful couples is that successful ones keep getting up and dealing with the issues.
Suppressing negative feelings is not loving, respectful or very wise. Speak up tactfully.
When a husband feels disrespected, he has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel unloving to his wife. (Perhaps the command to love was given to him precisely for this reason!) When a wife feels unloved, she has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel disrespectful to her husband. (Perhaps the command to respect was given to her precisely for this reason!)
This is the Rewarded Cycle: His love blesses regardless of her respect and her respect blesses regardless of his love.
No one can really practice Love and Respect unless he or she does it as unto Jesus Christ.
Wives, you never know: The way you handle this [conflict] might bring your husband not only back to you, but to God. Husbands, you never know: The way you handle this [conflict] might bring your wife not only back to you, but to God. (1 Corinthians 7:16)
Your spouse has a need that you don’t have. Are you going to say there is something seriously wrong with them or will you say “Viva la Difference”?
Always see your mate as an ally. Feedback is of little use if you see your spouse as an enemy. Giving and receiving constructive feedback is based on feelings of goodwill in both partners. Both of you need to remember that, even if you don’t always agree and even if you become irritated or angry, you are friends, and neither of you means to hurt the other.
If you are seeking positive change in your marriage, you will need to make a positive change in your attitude and actions.
Words of Love or Respect must uplift your spouse, edifying- never manipulating him or her.
Wives, to energize your husband do an activity with him, shoulder-to-shoulder, without talking.
No matter how difficult your spouse may be at the moment, your spouse does not have control over your reaction; you do. You may be experiencing disappointment, frustration or anger, but you always have a choice. A wife can choose to be disrespectful or respectful. A husband can choose to be unloving or loving.
Your position in Christ is what counts, not your less-than-perfect performance.
We must bring our identity in Christ to our parenting—we must not derive our identity from our children.
Never give up. If you want to have a strong marriage, you need to accept temporary setbacks as part of the game.
Don’t conclude that your spouse is wrong when he/she is seeking to do the right and righteous thing.
When you love or respect unconditionally regardless of the outcome, you are following God and His will for you.
If we subscribe to the belief that because we are equal we are the same, then we’re going to expect our spouse to respond the way we do.
A strong woman of dignity puts on respect out of her love and reverence for Jesus Christ. She trusts that His word not only protects and empowers her, but also rewards her with incomprehensible eternal blessings.
The more we are upset at something, the wiser it is to let twenty-four hours pass before responding.
“With eyes of faith, envision Jesus standing just beyond the shoulder of your spouse and listening to every word you speak in every conversation, pleasant or tense. When you speak lovingly or respectfully to your spouse, you are speaking to Christ. Your spouse just happens to be there too.” This truth has sanctified the lips of many. Instead of giving their spouse a verbal whipping or choking on the idea of saying anything positive, now some spouses are motivated to speak words of unconditional love or respect.