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Amor Y Respeto - Cuaderno De Trabajo
Videoconferencia (Descargar PDF)
LIBRO DE EJERCICIOS PARA EL DVD EN ESPAÑOL
Este es un libro de ejercicios que viene adjunto con el set de “Amor y Respeto” donde se presentan todas las Escrituras que el Dr. Eggerichs utiliza, así como actividades interactivas para los participantes. Por favor ordene uno por persona.
SPANISH DVD WORKBOOK
This is the companion workbook to the Spanish Love and Respect DVDs, providing all the Scriptures Dr. Eggerichs uses, as well as fill-in-the-blanks for interactive participation. Please order one per person.
Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs
Dr. Emerson Eggerichs is an internationally known public speaker on the topic of male-female relationships. Based on over three decades of pastoring, counseling and study of biblical and scientific research, Dr. Eggerichs and his wife Sarah developed the Love and Respect Conference which they present to live audiences around the country.
About Love & RespectProduct Quotes
Words of Love and Respect must include thankfulness spoken to or about your spouse; don’t fixate on weaknesses and faults.
Unconditional respect means we confront their wrongdoings respectfully. We do not become uncivil because they are. Who they fail to be does not determine who we will be.
Optimism or pessimism? It is always a choice, no matter what your natural temperament.
If husbands and wives are to understand the Love and Respect Connection, they must realize that they communicate in code. And the problem is, they don’t know how to decipher the messages they send to one another.
His love blesses regardless of her respect; her respect blesses regardless of his love.
Clearly, in the marriage, in the family and in the household, when you speak words of blessing, you are speaking to the Lord, and for this you will be rewarded.
Before hitting send, ask yourself, "Have I listened carefully and understand the exact issue on the table?"
To build a lasting legacy, use proven wisdom that you glean from the Lord.
When your wife comes to talk to you, listen to her. Realize she is coming to you because you matter more to her than anyone else. She has certain emotional needs and only you can meet them. Sometimes she may say things that don’t make sense to you and she is apt to misspeak and exaggerate when she is upset, but don’t put her down. Instead, listen to her heart. Give her a chance to express her concerns and, as she does so, don’t try to fix her. Don’t give her your solutions unless she asks for them.
Your position in Christ is what counts, not your less-than-perfect performance.
Self-interest should never come ahead of your spouse’s interests.
Thank God for joining you together and for allowing you to trust Him to help you, whatever the issue. God is there for you and expects you to look to Him to keep you together as a team, so ask Him for His help in the smallest of concerns. “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” (Matthew 19:6)
When you’re truly Christ-centered, instead of child-centered, you will be a more effective parent in the long run.
She’s not wrong for not being male. He is not wrong for not being female. When you put pink and blue together, you get purple, the color of royalty; the color of God. Together, a husband and wife reflect God’s image.
[Women], as you enter quiet dignity, not preaching at your husband or scolding him as though you were his mother, something happens in his soul as a male.
When evil comes at you, you’re the one who makes the choice of whether or not it is going to go into you.
If a husband chooses to be a peacemaker--taking the needs and concerns of his wife totally into account during any kind of argument or conflict--his wife will be motivated in turn to respond to his authority during stalemates.
When the wife flatly says her husband will have to earn her respect before she gives him any, she leaves the husband in a lose-lose situation. Now he is responsible for both love and respect in the relationship. He must unconditionally love his wife and earn her respect.
Your wife feels you are open with her when you discuss financial concerns, possible job changes or ideas for your future.
No one can really practice Love and Respect unless he or she does it as unto Jesus Christ.
A wife has one driving need--to feel loved. When that need is met she is happy. A husband has one driving need--to feel respected. When that need is met he is happy. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy. Love and Respect reveals why spouses react negatively to each other, and how they can deal with such conflict quickly, easily and biblically.
We all need love and respect equally. But, during conflict our felt needs are as different as pink is from blue.
Always see your mate as an ally. Feedback is of little use if you see your spouse as an enemy. Giving and receiving constructive feedback is based on feelings of goodwill in both partners. Both of you need to remember that, even if you don’t always agree and even if you become irritated or angry, you are friends, and neither of you means to hurt the other.
We have discovered that as women motivate their man God’s way, men are energized to love them better. It doesn’t matter if your marriage is good or seems like there is no hope. We have seen God move in powerful ways even when things looked hopeless.
It’s so easy to dismiss our spouse as childish because we don’t have the same vulnerabilities they do.
To stay the course in speaking words of Love and Respect, keep your heart in Scripture, trusting in and talking about His promises to help you.
When one of you makes a mistake, control any anger you may feel and trust God completely, no matter what happens.
Mutual understanding, not communication, is the key to a healthy marriage relationship.
Can you begin to trust that God feels love for you even when you don’t feel that love?
“With eyes of faith, envision Jesus standing just beyond the shoulder of your spouse and listening to every word you speak in every conversation, pleasant or tense. When you speak lovingly or respectfully to your spouse, you are speaking to Christ. Your spouse just happens to be there too.” This truth has sanctified the lips of many. Instead of giving their spouse a verbal whipping or choking on the idea of saying anything positive, now some spouses are motivated to speak words of unconditional love or respect.
To get offended is easy, but to forgive is within your power as you walk in His steps.
Will we decide how we see God based on our circumstances, or will we see our circumstances in light of how we view God?
There is a plan to parent God’s way, even when our children may seek to go their own way at time. The secret is to follow this plan regardless. When you do, I believe you succeed in His eyes.
Thank the Lord for the goodwill each of you has toward the other. Ask Him for strength to give each other the benefit of the doubt during moments when someone’s goodwill seems to be lacking. “He who seeks good finds goodwill, but evil comes to him who searches for it.” (Proverbs 11:27)
Thank the Lord for all the trouble-free moments in which you and your spouse enjoy Him, each other, your family, your ministry and life as a whole. Ask Him for the strength to accept your measure of trouble, and the wisdom to deal with the annoyances and irritations by loving and respecting each other with new commitment. (You may also want to pray about troubles at work, at church, with the children…) “But those who marry will have trouble in this life” (1 Corinthians 7:28)
God is not pink. God is not blue. God is purple. When two become one, they have the potential of displaying God’s attributes and character.
When you come home after you have been apart, the first few moments of reconnecting will set the tone for the rest of the evening.
Accidental sparks (unwise remarks) ignite and fuel a fire, and vroom goes the Crazy Cycle.
When a husband feels disrespected, he has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel unloving to his wife. (Perhaps the command to love was given to him precisely for this reason!) When a wife feels unloved, she has a natural tendency to react in ways that feel disrespectful to her husband. (Perhaps the command to respect was given to her precisely for this reason!)
How we react to a situation reveals more about us than about the other person.
Your husband knows you value his friendship when you tell him you like him and you show it (he knows you love him, but he often wonders if you really like him).
When we speak before we think, we widen the chances the other person(s) will be notably hurt, frustrated, confused, angry, fearful, or offended by something we’ve communicated.
When a wife feels unloved, it can be such a shock to her heart that she is oblivious to her disrespectful reactions toward her husband, though any man watching could see it plainly.
Both Judas and Peter denied Jesus Christ, but there is a huge difference between a Judas and a Peter.
It is so easy to draw wrong conclusions about a spouse’s character and motives due to an occasional flare-up or silly comment.
Do you believe that there is a God who really loves you and wants to help you?
If you are seeking positive change in your marriage, you will need to make a positive change in your attitude and actions.
God is not trying to trick you or mess with you. Trust that He wants to reveal Himself to you just as much as He wants to reveal Himself to the world.
The Love and Respect message is not about a husband earning his wife’s respect by being more loving any more than it is about a wife earning her husband’s love by being more respectful. Always love or respect is given unconditionally according to God’s commands.
Although the Crazy Cycle is not what God intends for any marriage, all couples get on it at times from one degree to another.
When we feel crippling discouragement by the sinful choices and outcomes of our kids, we must not let this permanently deter us from parenting God’s way.
Our research shows that couples who pray together are more apt to reap all kinds of benefits, including better and more frequent communication, going on “dates” more frequently and having sex more frequently.
Most marriages will succeed when obeying the command to Love and Respect.
We blame people for the bad things we do, but take credit for the good things we do.
Words of wisdom for all husbands and wives are these: We easily see what is done to us before we see what we are doing to our mate.
Marriage is a test of how you unconditionally love and respect your spouse as you obey, honor, and please the Lord.
A major step toward a happy marriage is accepting differences and working them out with love and respect.
Every marriage includes trouble some of the time. Do not let the 20% leaven all the rest.
There is a discrepancy between who we want to be and see ourselves to be and how we actually sound in voice and writing. But with self-reflection and honesty, we can turn the corner and improve our communication. We need only evaluate what we are about to communicate.
She’ll feel at peace with you when you let her vent your frustrations and hurts and don’t get angry and close her off.
To not forgive is to shoot yourself in the foot and put extra gas in the Crazy Cycle.
We can all have moments of anger, but this does not mean we have to lose control and sin.
When there is confusion, I try to refrain from attacking another for not listening carefully (which may not be the case). Instead, I take a run at communicating again, but more clearly.
A wife has one driving need: to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need: to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy with conflict.
He will feel appreciated when you disagree with him only in private and honor his authority in front of the kids.
Money squabbles don’t undermine love and respect; they simply reveal unloving and disrespectful attitudes, which are the real reason why a marriage can start to wobble on the Crazy Cycle.
When others do not respond to our communication, we need to look first at our communication style. Is the other person incapable of hearing what we have to say? Or are we abrupt, brusque, and curt?
We might say that every negative action in the family has an equal and opposite negative reaction.
Positive changes flood a relationship immediately when both husband and wife cancel the blame game!
Don’t pressure yourself with perfection. We are going to fail. A righteous man falls 7 times but gets back up.
We must bring our identity in Christ to our parenting—we must not derive our identity from our children.
We get on the Crazy Cycle because without love a wife reacts without respect, and without respect a husband reacts without love.
Mutual submission is the only way to live fairly together with mutual authority.
Your spouse can have a need that you don’t have and that’s okay.
A man has a natural, inborn desire to go out and “conquer” the challenges of his world – to work and achieve.
No matter how difficult your spouse may be at the moment, your spouse does not have control over your reaction; you do. You may be experiencing disappointment, frustration, or anger, but you always have a choice.
I had often asked God to compensate for my mistakes, but in return had I thought He would give me perfect children?
The Crazy Cycle is, indeed “the evil of folly and the foolishness of madness” (Ecclesiastes 7:25)
Men are solution oriented, they love to solve problems. They want to be helpful.
One thing to remember in this culture is if we say something complimentary towards one gender, we aren’t saying something against the other.
The Crazy Cycle is, indeed, “the evil of folly and the foolishness of madness” (Ecclesiastes 7:25).
With a better understanding of God’s promises, you will be on your way to a renewed mind and a changed life.
When a wife asks, “Do you love me?” She is not trying to put her husband on the spot. She is simply looking for reassurance.
I have concluded that those of us in the church who believe we have the Truth are not using the whole truth. A crucial part of God’s Word has been completely ignored, or perhaps simply gone unnoticed, when it has been there right under our noses the whole time! Many Christian spouses know Ephesians 5:33 and can at least paraphrase it. The Apostle Paul tells husbands to love their wives as much as they love themselves, and wives are to respect their husbands. But is anyone really listening? Perhaps the first step to better communication between husband and wife is to hear what God’s Word clearly says. --Emerson
Don’t label each other as bad because you differ on how you solve your troubles.
Wives, to energize your husband do an activity with him, shoulder-to-shoulder, without talking.
If you want your husband to express appreciation for your attempts to be respectful, you must speak thankfully when he tries to be loving.
We can communicate the truth in the best of manners, but the person may be so insecure he or she can only react and attack like a wounded bear.